Eddie Jaku: A Holocaust Survivor's Blueprint for Happiness |
- "My dear new friends ... (Laughter) My name is Eddie Jaku, and I'm standing in front of you today, a survivor of the Holocaust and a witness of the most tragic times in the history of mankind." (Ethos)
- "I lost my dignity, my freedom, and my faith in humanity. I lost everything I lived for. I was reduced from a man to being nothing." (Pathos)
- "I did not have a chance to say goodbye to my beloved mother, and I have missed her every day of my life. If you have the opportunity today, please go home and make sure you tell your mom how much you love her. Please do this for your new friend, Eddie." (Pathos)
- "But I'm standing here today a happy man, who enjoys life with a wonderful wife and a beautiful family. I do not hate anyone. Hate is a disease which may destroy your enemy, but will also destroy you in the process." (Pathos)
- "Happiness does not fall from the sky; it's in your hands." (Logos)
Eddie Jaku is a man who has seen far beyond what we all know. He is a man that has experienced the tragedies of World War II and the mass slaughter of his own people, just for being Jewish. Jaku talks about the battles he has survived from the Holocaust-- the burning of his home, the death of his dog, the camps he was taken to, and the loss of his parents. As he tells the story of each new challenge, he shares all the darkness within that moment. Jaku discusses the horrors that haunt humanity and have many of us wondering again and again how someone could treat another in the way he was treated-- in the way Jews were treated. But after each new challenge and after each fight against all odds, Eddie Jaku talks of hope. He speaks of his miraculous survival, his wife and kids, and the happiness he has reclaimed from life. This Ted Talk is about valuing what you have and taking a moment to be grateful for the light in your life. Eddie Jaku proclaims that hope and happiness can never be lost, even in the darkest of times. Through his talk, he offers advice to his audience of how they should focus on their personal happiness and reclaim it themselves if lost.
Jaku alone, just standing before the audience, a smile on his face is an inspirational image. But his words, heartfelt and filled with a deep rooted passion, stir up emotions far beyond just inspiration. This particular talk relied on the combination of ethos and pathos. I personally, do not think Eddie was trying to persuade the incidence in any way-- but rather share what he himself has learned through his troubles. The ethos of the matter, is that of personal experience. Eddie Jaku is a Holocaust survivor who first hand went through all of which he describes. There is no greater reliability than that of personal experience. If he, a man who has gone through all of that hardship-- most likely the worst of humankind-- can end up happy, than it must be true everyone else can as well. Through this perspective, the audience hangs on to each word and story he has to tell. Eddie Jaku has seen more and felt more than all of us can imagine, and through this, the audience puts great stock in his words.
The pathos comes along with each story. As he begins his story, starting with when he was first taken from his home, he recalls specific details and emotions with each memory. Jaku brings in his senses at the time to develop the imagery of these memories, because to him, they are just as clear as ever. This helps the audience connect to what he is saying by being able to imagine it themselves. The pure horror that comes from each hardship, and the questions on human nature that arise from it, create a deep emotional reaction for most audience members. As we listen, we become attached to Eddie Jaku and his story. With each new piece of information, we sympathize more and more with him, truly experiencing heartache for what he, and many others, had to experience. It is, however, the hope at the end of each story that really triggers the emotional reaction. As an audience, we want nothing but happiness for Jaku and peace of mind. So when he explains that he has both, the feeling one gets is hard to put into words. It is the most heartwarming feeling of all because if anyone deserves happiness, it is someone like Eddie Jaku.
The advice he gives is simple and logical. It is straightforward and wholesome. He wants us to be grateful-- to love and appreciate our friends and family. He wants us to stop and admire the world we have and all the happiness that comes with it. But most importantly, Jaku wants us to take happiness into our own hands. This use of logos is within this simple message. It is one no one can deny, especially not from someone like Eddie Jaku. He combines this logic, with the credibility from his life experience, to push advice onto his audience that they will likely take to heart.
I would safety bet each member of that audience left feeling different, changed in some way. Eddie Jaku is able to effectively give such a powerful Ted Talk through the blending of all three of these elements-- but above all, through the kindness in his own heart and the love he has to share.
I picked this Ted Talk within about twenty seconds of reading all the titles. At first, I was drawn in by the man on the front-- Eddie. I have always had a love of old people and his smile just radiated joy. When I read the title, I absolutely knew I had to watch it. Happiness to me is my whole goal in life. I have spent a lot of time in my own personal darkness, just like Eddie, on a different scale. Through that darkness, I have found what I believe to be the beginnings of my own light in life-- my own happiness. I wanted to watch this Ted Talk because I felt if Eddie Jaku could find himself happy after all he went through, I certainly could. I have to admit, I bawled the entire time I watched the video and wrote this blog. Simply because the subject of happiness hits close to home and as an individual, I sympathize deeply for others. Just like those audience members, I can say that the Ted Talk did change me in some way and my friend, Eddie Jaku, helped me see the light a little more clearly.